Amelia that is. Amelia is our world. She is the centre of everything and everything revolves around her. Don't like it? You don't have to. Don't be involved. I know you're thinking wow that child is spoilt! Yes in some ways, but she has rules, manners and respect and we will continue to teach her these things.
We decided a long time ago that the only people we would have in Amelia's life are those who put her before the bull$hit. Those who bring something to her life. Those who spoil her. I don't mean spend millions on her (though the odd gift is nice) I mean TIME!!! TIME is what children need!! Why do I need to fight for something so simple? I don't think Amelia is more important than other children or anything. She has a beautiful little cousin who I WISH I could spoil rotten but I can't afford too, but I think she should be centre of the world too.
I am so very sick of gossip/bitching and people who I feel are wasting chances with Amelia. If she's not important enough to stop you being an idiot then feel free to stop being involved with her. My daughter deserves the BEST and I don't care how many jobs we have to work she will have it. If we can work 3 jobs (4 if you include a stay at home mom) why can you shut your mouth?
My point in this rant is, where in life, is the point where you say enough is enough and put your childs needs infront of everything. Is it once is too much? 3 strikes you're out? Keep going in the hopes you'll change? Are there rules to say centain people are excluded from this? Can certain people do what ever they want and you have to take it? When is enough, enough?
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